What I do not Understand.

And yet maybe I am not suppose to.
young people and commitment.
make sense?
I am young but I believe I know what
decisions I am making and what commitment
means and what I really want in life.
I know how to communicate
and I know I need to communicate
have to communicate.
Communication....
a huge part of life, when you are about to
jump into a commitment you Have to communicate.


Scenario
Young man meets Young woman, fall in love.
it's a beautiful experiance,
but if you don't handle it with care than mixed
emotions occur.
Young man proposes to Young woman.
Marriage..
BIG commitment, lots of communicating.
without understanding each other then things wont work
you have to be completly Honest with each other.
sometimes agree to disagree.
Young woman gets scared and backs out after a few months.
Young man is Devistated and not only wants but needs
reason, answers, explanation.
Personaly I believe they are not ready if this happens.
Young woman ignores Young man... results in unhappiness
when all that needed to happen was a conversation
an explanation, it's not right to leave someone guessing..

Conclusion..
this is what I do not understand..
this does not make sense..
the only thing it does is help me be a better person
a better communicator with those I care about and love
a good lesson was learned here I hope

My Addictions

Husband.
                         Family
     Love
                  Hunting together
singing
           being silly
                                   reading a good book
                                   keep turning that page...
doritos
                   smiling
caring
                                   dancing
          poker and black jack
baking                                        PIE
                                            cherry.. apple..
carmex           cuddling                homemaking
 
   i'm a happy girl who just wants to make
        the world a better place
            even if it's just by
               being me.

<3 me